About Me

Meet MJ

 Get in touch with me at [email protected] 

Hi friends, MJ here. I’m a thirty-something wife and mama to Zoë & Baby E. In November 2012, after many years of hoping and praying, I became a FAB Haute Mama. In 2015, Baby E made his debut making me a full-time mom of two. I’m honored to be (step) mama to Big Z, our 11-year-old. I’m also a plant and pet mama. Yep, I have a lot going on in “mamaland”. 

So much has changed in my life since motherhood. I share my experiences (good, bad and otherwise). I believe in sharing the authentic in motherhood. You never know who can relate or who can help. We are all in this together. The kids have an active social life filled with trips, playdates and fun. Mama is also getting back into my own self-care including journaling, doodling, dating The Hubs and having girls night out. While most people know me as Z and E’s mom, I am slowing bringing MJ back to the scene. It’s not always easy but it is definitely necessary. Happy MJ, happy (family) life is my motto. 

I have a Masters Degree in Telecommunications & Information Management and come from a sales and marketing corporate background. I’ve also worked as a marketing manager for a boutique events and catering company, an assistant for a pastry chef and at one point long before I had children I rocked as a volunteer troop leader for the Girl Scouts in our church.

Some everyday things I ❤️ are coffee, tea and lipstick!   I also adore shoes, pretty dresses, full skirts and all the fancy things. My day may be filled with mama duties but on the inside I’m still rocking my stilettos. Beyond coffee & tea, I love food. I’m a FOODIE and I am here for all of it! Not long ago, I started culinary school and then I quit but my love for food has never left. Balancing my love of food with the need for health is something I struggle with daily. Sometimes I just go ahead and eat the cake. Life is too short not to eat the cake especially after long days and nights in mamaland.  

Meet Zoe 

Zoë aka Little Z is my feisty and strong willed future artist. At almost 5 years old, she loves to paint, sing, dance and read. Zoe has recently started writing her own songs and writing letters to her pen pals. Zoe is my sensitive child that challenges me to be a better mama each day. When she’s not dressed up for her latest fairytale, she enjoys helping me cook and garden. Zoe also loves teaching her little brother how to count in English and Spanish. She’s my little rockstar. 

Meet Baby E

At 2 1/2 Baby E keeps me on my toes. I am still in some type of shock (or is it sleep deprivation?) that I am actually a mom of two. Baby E is the ever climbing, jumping, and adventure seeking little guy in our home. Most days I’m fighting the anxiety he brings to the day but his smile is infectious and his love of life keeps me going. He’s all about the car, truck, plane life with an occasional dinosaur thrown in. He loves to help in the kitchen and will not be outdone by anyone. 

Meet The Hubs & Big Z

The hubs is a pretty low-key kind of guy. Social media and sharing is not really his thing, but I still sneak in a pic or two on occasion.  He’s a great guy who enjoys Netflix and chill and grilling. He also puts up with me and my antics and latest plant obsession. Big Z is a major part of my life but she’s also incognito on the blog with an occasional appearance every now and then. 

Popular Posts

My Birth Story: Zoe

Breastfeeding Struggles: Baby E Breastfeeding

Mom Truth: About This Mama of Two Thing…

A #baremom moment on being a mom of two

























I’ve enjoyed sharing my motherhood journey while partnering with some awesome brands I’ve adored long before I became a mom. Some of my most recent partnerships include #PlaytexMoms, Luvs and OshKosh B’gosh and Carters. My community loves knowing that I share my truths in stories that feature brands they know and love. Want to work with me? Please email me at [email protected] to discuss future partnerships. 

Stay In Touch 

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    February 1, 2015 at 11:39 AM

    Awwwww!!!!! I just love this, MJ 🙂

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    February 7, 2015 at 3:19 AM

    Beautiful FAMILY! So glad that we connected via twitter… look forward to seeing more from you!

    ~Peace & Blessing!

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      M J
      February 8, 2015 at 3:09 PM

      Hi Lynn, It was a great time during the twitter chat. Can’t wait for the next one.

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    March 7, 2015 at 12:51 PM

    Love it! I’m about to start walking again.

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      M J
      March 8, 2015 at 9:45 PM

      Let’s walk together girl!

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    January 12, 2016 at 2:09 PM

    Hi MJ

    Just love reading your blogs and I’m so excited for the peanut butter powder never really paid attention to it in Walmart but a definite must have. Miss you girl love that you have a wonderful family you are so well deserving of it always had that mommy instinct. Talk to you soon your girl Nikki.

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      M J
      January 13, 2016 at 3:39 PM

      OMG Hi Nikki! Thank you for reading. How are you and the girls? We need to connect. This is such a wonderful surprise.

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    April 21, 2016 at 11:18 PM

    Hi lisa…..I looovvveeee it. I truly enjoyed reading your blog. Keep up the awesome work. May God continue to bless you with more connections. Peace and Love Sis. Kiss the Lil angels for me. Xoxo ??

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      M J
      April 22, 2016 at 9:26 AM

      Thank you Yvonne. I appreciate your support.

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    Briana Pray
    June 9, 2016 at 11:50 AM

    Good morning My name is Briana Pray and I’m the author and illustrator of a new African American children’s book series called Dance School Diaries. I released the first book of the series named Practice Makes Perfect in May 2016. I would like to know if you would be interested in featuring my book on your blog. Also I would like to send you two books to you; one for you and your children’s book collection and another one as a give-a-away to your audience. You could contact me via email @ [email protected], social media pages Dance School Diaries book series page on Face Book and danceschool_diaries on instagram. I also have a web site that you can look at http://www.brianapray.com. I hope to hear from you soon.

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    June 27, 2016 at 10:02 PM

    Lissa….This is dope and so you…I am so proud of you for finally saying no…what a beautiful family you have and its so inspiring to see you doing what you love!!! I always knew you would be an amazing mom…love you and miss you dearly!!

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      M J
      June 28, 2016 at 2:24 PM

      Awww Kiki,

      Thank you so much. Thank you for your friendship and support. Love and miss you too. Kiss my girls for me. I am feeling so crazy that they are all grown up. Where did the time go!?!?

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    Cynthia Mercado
    July 31, 2016 at 3:53 PM

    So glad to find your site!

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    Sabrina Marlin
    April 18, 2017 at 4:00 PM

    Wonderful family, I love food, fitness, fashion , stories and motherhood as well. I love to hear of people who love the same! Keep striving to pursue things you love.

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    May 1, 2017 at 8:11 PM

    Hi Friend,

    We went to college together and in my search for a Rasta Pasta recipe, by chance, I come across your page. Glad to see you are doing very well. Beautiful fam.

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    July 29, 2017 at 8:29 AM

    Twin. Really enjoyed reading your blog. So proud of you my sister for perusing your dreams and sharing the joy of happiness with the rest of us dreamers. I’m still climbing my mountain, I’m happy to know that when I reach the top you’ll be there to welcome me.
    Love you girl xoxoxo

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      M J
      July 30, 2017 at 10:25 PM

      Thank you my sweet friend. Love you too.

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    April 1, 2018 at 11:21 PM

    I’m a proud Tia. You make me relish being amom, even though my “baby” is 23..lol. Thanks for allowing us into your world…it’s amazing and so are you Niece. Kisses to Hubby, Big Z, Zoe and E……here’s yours ????????

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      M J
      April 2, 2018 at 10:22 AM

      Awww TIA! Thanks so much. I love you and I truly appreciate your support. You have grandbabies now and I know you are loving that.

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    Michelle Gall
    March 9, 2020 at 5:23 PM

    This is so awesome! I’m sorry I’m just finding out, but happy to catch up! : )

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      M J
      April 17, 2020 at 12:50 PM

      Hi Michelle! Thanks for coming to my site. I hope you find some stuff useful.

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    October 9, 2020 at 4:15 PM

    Did you by any chance go to BTHS?

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      M J
      October 27, 2020 at 5:01 PM


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